Waje and Her Lovely Daughter |
Are you a
single mum left saddled with responsibility of bringing up a child alone? Being a single mum is not the end of the world, the
mere fact that you had your baby out of wedlock or by circumstance does not
make you less a woman. As a single mother, you are still loving and caring for
that child till date – “You are a Super Mum”.
What people say about you does
not matter, what really counts is what you think of yourself. Some women
out there do not deserve to be called Mothers. Overtime, I have come realize
that, it does not necessarily mean that only those who bear forth a child
biologically that deserves to be called mothers “NO”. Bringing forth a child
into this world is one thing, and taking proper care responsibility of that
child is another. Read On
HAVING A CHILD OUTSIDE MARRIAGE CAN NOT CHANGE YOUR DESTINY
The single facts
that you had a child before marriage does not make you a different person
neither, will it change who you really are or what you ought to become in the
future. Learn from these celebrities and you too can be celebrated.
Clarion Chukwura and Her Talented Son |
It is true
that at that point in time, you saw it as a mistake, but I bet you it is in the
plan – A Blessing in Disguise. All you need do is change your orientation, come
out strong, be focused and the sky is your stepping stone.
Genevieve Nnaji and Her Pretty Daughter |
What good
will it do you hiding in your own shadow or standing in the crowd? When you are
supposed to be at the top addressing the crowd. Hey dear, you deserve a better
life, you are young and vibrant. Put your past behind you, you still have what
it takes to pursue and live your dream.
Show that baby some love and you will see how love will help you pull
through.
Why deprive
an innocent child the excesses and freedom that comes with being a child? It is an unpleasant experience for any child
growing up without love. It is absolutely true you had your baby at the most
inconvenient time in your life, things happen for a reason you know? All these
things make you a better person, you are amazing, talented, beautiful and
naturally endowed. Look back and you will be amazed how far you have come, far
better than your peers and those who scorned at you in the past.
The future
counts a lot. Children are a blessing to their parents, looking at your child
tells how beautiful your future will be. Give that child a good upbringing
(foundation) and you will be proud to say “This
is my child”
NOTE: For those born outside wedlock,
whatever the situation might be growing; be grateful. Your mum took a tough
decision giving you life, it takes a kind heart to take such a tough decision
and that should not be taken for granted.
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